{"id":15714,"date":"2026-05-02T08:24:27","date_gmt":"2026-05-02T08:24:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=15714"},"modified":"2026-05-02T08:24:27","modified_gmt":"2026-05-02T08:24:27","slug":"my-husband-tried-to-avoid-divorce-for-money-i-made-sure-he-paid-the-highest-price","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=15714","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Tried to Avoid Divorce for Money \u2013 I Made Sure He Paid the Highest Price"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"130\">When I overheard my husband admit he was only staying to avoid child support, everything changed. I didn\u2019t confront him\u2014I planned.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"132\" data-end=\"356\">For 15 years, I believed we were a team. I built a successful business, raised our three kids, and supported him through failures. Meanwhile, he resented me\u2014and secretly cheated, even buying another woman an engagement ring.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"358\" data-end=\"559\">So I hired a top divorce attorney and gathered evidence: messages, receipts, and proof of infidelity. The hardest part was asking my kids to speak\u2014but they did, honestly sharing how absent he\u2019d become.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"561\" data-end=\"771\">In court, the truth dismantled him. I was granted full custody, the house, and most assets. And in the ultimate irony\u2014he was ordered to pay <strong data-start=\"701\" data-end=\"707\">me<\/strong> spousal support, far more than child support he tried to avoid.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"773\" data-end=\"813\">He thought staying would save him money.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"815\" data-end=\"838\">It cost him everything.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"840\" data-end=\"905\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">And for the first time in years, my kids and I were finally free.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>When I overheard my husband admit he was only staying to avoid child support, everything changed. I didn\u2019t confront him\u2014I planned. For 15 years, I <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=15714\" title=\"My Husband Tried to Avoid Divorce for Money \u2013 I Made Sure He Paid the Highest Price\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15715,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15714"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15716,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15714\/revisions\/15716"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15715"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}