{"id":16530,"date":"2026-05-12T18:53:24","date_gmt":"2026-05-12T18:53:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=16530"},"modified":"2026-05-12T18:53:24","modified_gmt":"2026-05-12T18:53:24","slug":"the-pottery-class-that-shattered-my-marriage-seven-months-into-my-pregnancy-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=16530","title":{"rendered":"The Pottery Class That Shattered My Marriage Seven Months Into My Pregnancy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m pregnant with my second baby, and everyone warned me this pregnancy would feel different. My mom insisted I\u2019d be more emotional, and though I rolled my eyes, she wasn\u2019t entirely wrong. The emotions came not from pregnancy hormones, but from discovering my husband\u2019s double life.<\/p>\n<p>I mostly wanted to hide at home, but my best friend Ava convinced me to attend a pottery night for pregnant women. At the studio, the conversation turned to birth stories. One woman shared how her boyfriend left her on the Fourth of July because his sister-in-law, Olivia, was in labor.<\/p>\n<p>My daughter Tess was born on July 4th. I\u2019m Olivia.<\/p>\n<p>Then she mentioned her boyfriend\u2019s name: Malcolm. My husband.<\/p>\n<p>When I showed her a family photo, her face went pale. \u201cThat\u2019s your husband?\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n<p>Then she shattered my world: \u201cHe\u2019s my son\u2019s father too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I learned my husband had been having an affair and secretly fathered another child. He had nearly missed our daughter\u2019s birth because he was with another woman, and later missed his other child\u2019s birth while watching Tess.<\/p>\n<p>That night, Malcolm admitted everything. There was no excuse that mattered. By morning, the marriage I believed in was over.<\/p>\n<p>Now, five weeks from giving birth, I\u2019m preparing for divorce and a future I never imagined: raising two children as a single mother and helping them understand they have a half-sibling born from betrayal.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not the life I planned, but it will be honest. And after all the lies, honesty is enough.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>I\u2019m pregnant with my second baby, and everyone warned me this pregnancy would feel different. My mom insisted I\u2019d be more emotional, and though I <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=16530\" title=\"The Pottery Class That Shattered My Marriage Seven Months Into My Pregnancy\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16531,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16530","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16530"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16530\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16532,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16530\/revisions\/16532"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16531"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16530"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16530"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16530"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}