{"id":21719,"date":"2026-10-05T07:16:07","date_gmt":"2026-10-05T07:16:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=21719"},"modified":"2026-10-05T07:16:07","modified_gmt":"2026-10-05T07:16:07","slug":"my-spouse-abandoned-me-with-our-six-month-old-triplets-to-enjoy-a-beach-holiday-without-me-because-i-hadnt-earned-one-however-when-he-returned-his-arrogant-grin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=21719","title":{"rendered":"My spouse abandoned me with our six-month-old triplets to enjoy a beach holiday without me because \u201cI HADN\u2019T EARNED ONE\u201d \u2014 however, when he returned, his arrogant grin vanished."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>PART 1<\/p>\n<p>After five years of fertility treatments, I became pregnant with triplets. It felt miraculous, and my husband, Marcus, was thrilled.<\/p>\n<p>We quickly agreed that after the babies arrived, I would quit my job to stay home with them.<\/p>\n<p>However, once the babies were born, I managed everything at home on my own. Despite the challenging delivery, I took on all the household tasks almost immediately after leaving the hospital. I cooked, cleaned, and cared for the babies.<\/p>\n<p>And Marcus? He kept insisting that since he worked, he wouldn\u2019t be handling any of the housework.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to communicate with him, explaining that I needed assistance, but he always replied with:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well, you stay home! So everything around the house is entirely YOUR responsibility!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I attempted to maintain harmony at home.<\/p>\n<p>But recently, Marcus approached me and said:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Honey, I&#8217;m finally going on a beach vacation. My friends and I are going to unwind.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I was taken aback and asked:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Marcus, what about me? You didn&#8217;t even consult me\u2026 I thought we would organize a family vacation together\u2026&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He burst out laughing in my face and said:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But have you EARNED a vacation?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My voice quivered:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Marcus, what are you saying? I&#8217;m caring for three babies every single day\u2026&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He rolled his eyes and replied:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I work, and I&#8217;m financing MY vacation. You DON&#8217;T work, so you haven&#8217;t earned one. I&#8217;m going WITHOUT YOU, and that&#8217;s that!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s precisely what he did. Marcus simply packed his suitcase and went on vacation with his friends.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I had reached my limit of being treated this way. So I made ONE phone call and invited someone over.<\/p>\n<p>When Marcus returned from his vacation, he walked into the house with a broad smile.<\/p>\n<p>But the instant he saw WHO was sitting in our kitchen waiting for him, he turned pale.<\/p>\n<p>His smug grin DISAPPEARED.<\/p>\n<p>And that was just the BEGINNING of the evening\u2026<\/p>\n<p>PART 2<\/p>\n<p>After years of striving to become a mother, I believed raising triplets would be the toughest challenge I would encounter. Then my husband claimed I hadn&#8217;t earned a break and left for the beach. While he relaxed, I made one call that transformed what he returned to.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus halted in the kitchen doorway with one hand still gripping his suitcase.<\/p>\n<p>His tan was deeper than when he departed. His grin was broader too.<\/p>\n<p>Then he noticed the silence.<\/p>\n<p>No bottles drying by the sink.<\/p>\n<p>No folded blankets on the couch.<\/p>\n<p>No baby swing gently rocking in the corner.<\/p>\n<p>The three high chairs were absent.<\/p>\n<p>His smile faded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Where are the babies?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I sat at the kitchen table with my wedding ring beside a folder.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re safe.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Marcus dropped the suitcase handle.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Evelyn, where are Luna, Soleil, and Bodhi?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His expression tensed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is their home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; I replied. &#8220;This is where I raised them alone while you slept in the next room.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He stared at me.<\/p>\n<p>Then he looked past me at the nearly-empty house.<\/p>\n<p>That was when he finally realized something had occurred while he was away.<\/p>\n<p>But it had begun six months earlier.<\/p>\n<p>After five years of fertility treatments, I became pregnant with triplets.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus cried when we heard the third heartbeat.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Three babies,&#8221; he kept repeating. &#8220;Can you believe it, Ev?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When Luna, Soleil, and Bodhi arrived, they were tiny, loud, and perfect.<\/p>\n<p>The delivery was tough. My recovery was even harder.<\/p>\n<p>Still, once we returned home, I managed everything: feedings, bottles, laundry, meals, and cleaning, often at two in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus returned to work and decided that meant his part was done.<\/p>\n<p>One night, I sat on the bathroom floor eating half a granola bar.<\/p>\n<p>My hands shook so much that crumbs fell into my lap.<\/p>\n<p>Luna was crying. Soleil had finally fallen asleep, and Bodhi had soaked through his clothes twice.<\/p>\n<p>I needed 60 seconds.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus appeared in the doorway.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Can you quiet them down?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I looked up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m trying.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have an early meeting.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There are three of them and one of me, Marcus.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then help me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He leaned against the frame and sighed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I work all day, Evelyn.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So do I.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I laughed once, but it lacked humor.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What do you think I&#8217;m doing here?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re a stay-at-home mom. The house is your responsibility.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The babies are yours too.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then pick one up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He glanced toward the nursery as Luna&#8217;s cry intensified.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I need sleep.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So do I.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s different. You don&#8217;t have to go into an office.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He walked away.<\/p>\n<p>I remained on the bathroom floor until Luna&#8217;s cry became sharp.<\/p>\n<p>Then I got up.<\/p>\n<p>Two days later, I was measuring formula into Soleil&#8217;s bottle when Marcus entered the kitchen, grinning at his phone.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ian found a place right by the water,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>I continued scooping.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What are you talking about?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The beach. Our guys&#8217; trip.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I lowered the formula scoop.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What trip?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Marcus opened the fridge.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Me, Ian, and Jason. Five days. We leave tomorrow.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then I noticed the black suitcase by the front door.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You already packed?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mostly.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When were you planning to tell me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m telling you now, Evelyn. Keep up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I looked toward the living room.<\/p>\n<p>Luna was kicking under the play gym. Bodhi was gnawing on the corner of a cloth book. Soleil had started to fuss in her seat.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You booked a five-day trip without discussing it with me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Jason booked the rental weeks ago.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Weeks?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Marcus shrugged.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then we need to arrange help. I need assistance.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He laughed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Because I can&#8217;t take care of three infants alone for five days.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You do it every day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And I need help every day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He slammed the fridge door harder than necessary.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I work. I pay the bills. I need a break.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What about me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What about you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I thought we would take a family vacation when the babies were older. Maybe for their first birthday.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Marcus actually laughed in my face.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But have you earned a vacation?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The kitchen fell silent.<\/p>\n<p>Even Soleil stopped fussing for a moment.<\/p>\n<p>I stared at him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What did you say?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You heard me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I take care of three babies all day and all night.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I quit my job because we agreed I would stay home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And I&#8217;m the one paying for everything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He gestured around the room as if he owned the walls, the babies, and me.<\/p>\n<p>My voice trembled.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I nearly died bringing them home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No, you know it happened. You don&#8217;t act like it mattered.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Marcus grabbed his phone.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m going, Evelyn. You haven&#8217;t earned a break, and I&#8217;m not debating it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He went upstairs.<\/p>\n<p>I stood there with Soleil&#8217;s bottle in my hand.<\/p>\n<p>For months, I had contemplated how to make him understand.<\/p>\n<p>That afternoon, I realized he already knew.<\/p>\n<p>He just didn&#8217;t care enough to help.<\/p>\n<p>The next morning, Ian and Jason pulled into the driveway, honking.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus posed with Luna, then handed her back before she could grab his collar.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Try not to make me feel guilty while I&#8217;m gone,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>I held Luna against my chest.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t have the energy to make you feel anything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He kissed the top of her head, picked up his suitcase, and left.<\/p>\n<p>The following morning, I was buckling Luna into her carrier when my phone alarm sounded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;TRIPLETS&#8217; SIX-MONTH CHECKUP \u2013 9:30.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I glanced at the clock. It was 8:41.<\/p>\n<p>Soleil cried as I lifted her, Bodhi kicked off one sock, and the diaper bag fell twice before I secured them in.<\/p>\n<p>I reached for the key hook.<\/p>\n<p>Empty.<\/p>\n<p>I checked the counter, my purse, and the junk drawer. Both sets were missing, even though Marcus&#8217;s friends had picked him up.<\/p>\n<p>I called him.<\/p>\n<p>He answered over music and voices. &#8220;What&#8217;s wrong, Evelyn?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Where are the car keys?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A pause.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I took them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Both sets?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t want you driving around alone with all three babies.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stared at the carriers. &#8220;You don&#8217;t get to make that decision after leaving me with them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Stay home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They have a checkup in 40 minutes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I forgot. Reschedule it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. They&#8217;ve waited weeks.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then call Caleb.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I looked at Luna chewing her strap, Soleil crying, and Bodhi watching me quietly.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You took my way out because you wanted control, Marcus.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s not what this is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I ended the call and contacted my brother.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hey, trouble,&#8221; he said. &#8220;What&#8217;s wrong?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Caleb, I need a ride. It&#8217;s for the babies.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His tone shifted immediately. &#8220;I&#8217;m on my way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And Caleb?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yeah?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I surveyed the kitchen. Bottles cluttered the counter. Marcus&#8217;s coffee mug remained beside the sink.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;After the appointment, I need help moving.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He paused.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Are you sure?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I trusted him.<\/p>\n<p>He never told me what to do.<\/p>\n<p>He asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve never been more certain.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Caleb arrived quickly and took the diaper bag from my shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Tell me what you need.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re opening the old house.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The old house had belonged to Mom and Dad.<\/p>\n<p>After Dad passed away, Mom lived there for a while, then moved somewhere smaller. She later transferred the house to me because she wanted it to stay in the family.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus despised it.<\/p>\n<p>He called it old and inconvenient.<\/p>\n<p>I had mostly let it sit empty because arguing with him had always seemed harder than giving in.<\/p>\n<p>Caleb glanced at me as he drove away from the clinic. Luna was asleep behind us, Soleil was chewing her sleeve, and Bodhi kicked his feet against his carrier.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;All three are fine,&#8221; I said. &#8220;The nurse mentioned they&#8217;re growing well, and we should continue what we&#8217;re doing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Caleb tightened his grip on the wheel. &#8220;We? Marcus isn&#8217;t here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s why we&#8217;re leaving.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He looked at me. &#8220;Are you leaving because you&#8217;re angry or because you&#8217;re finished?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Both.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anger fades, Ev. Three babies rely on you. Ensure this is the best decision for them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then tell me what happens tomorrow.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I watched the road. &#8220;Tomorrow, I wake up in a house Marcus doesn&#8217;t control, and I start making decisions before he can make them for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Caleb nodded. &#8220;Okay.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t say okay unless you mean it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I mean I&#8217;ll assist you, sis. We&#8217;ll make the house safe for the babies.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That eased something in my chest.<\/p>\n<p>At the first red light, my phone buzzed. Marcus had sent a picture of himself between Ian and Jason, raising a drink beside the water.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Finally getting the rest I earned.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I saved it and showed it to Caleb.<\/p>\n<p>Caleb glanced over. &#8220;Want me to say something?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. I&#8217;m done explaining his actions.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When we arrived at the house I shared with Marcus, Mom was waiting beside the driveway. She touched each baby&#8217;s cheek, then faced me. Caleb had called her from the clinic while I was preoccupied with the triplets.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How was the checkup? Are they all right?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re healthy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I almost said fine. Instead, I handed Caleb my phone. &#8220;Show her Marcus&#8217;s message.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Mom read it once. Her mouth tightened. &#8220;What do you need, Evelyn?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;First, I need you to watch them while I make calls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And after that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re opening the old house, okay?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She smiled and nodded.<\/p>\n<p>Inside, Mom settled Luna on her shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Attorney first,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Then movers. I&#8217;ll photograph everything before we pack.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Caleb looked up. &#8220;And if Marcus calls?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll answer.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And if he tells you to stop?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I took Soleil from her carrier and held her against me. &#8220;He can say whatever he wants. He doesn&#8217;t get to decide what I do next.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Mom nodded. &#8220;Then make your calls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I opened my contacts, pressed the first number, and stepped into the kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>Caleb watched me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is your decision.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then I made the call.<\/p>\n<p>That afternoon, I called an attorney while Mom fed Luna and Caleb folded the empty moving boxes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I own another house,&#8221; I said. &#8220;My husband is away, and I&#8217;m taking the babies there. What can I move?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Photograph everything,&#8221; she said. &#8220;Take your personal items and the babies&#8217; essentials. Leave his property untouched. Save every message.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I noted it down.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No shortcuts?&#8221; Caleb asked when I hung up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. I want this as straightforward as possible.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He picked up his screwdriver. &#8220;Then tell me where to start.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The cribs.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Mom looked over. &#8220;And Marcus?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He&#8217;ll get the documents. I&#8217;m not hiding the babies, Mom. I just need to leave here. I&#8217;d prefer to struggle where I feel safe than remain somewhere I&#8217;m treated as invisible.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For the next six hours, I directed the move, photographed each room, saved Marcus&#8217;s messages, copied the feeding schedules, and paid from my savings.<\/p>\n<p>During the move, Marcus called on video.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s all that noise?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Movers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His smile faded. &#8220;Evelyn, what are you doing? We have no money to redecorate.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Taking care of what you left behind. I have movers here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Stop them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m serious, Evelyn.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So am I.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I ended the call.<\/p>\n<p>By evening, the old house still had dusty windows and a sticking front door, but the cribs stood ready.<\/p>\n<p>The day Marcus returned, Mom stayed there with the babies. Caleb waited nearby.<\/p>\n<p>I sat alone in our kitchen with my ring and the legal folder.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus walked in, filming himself.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Back to real life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then he noticed the empty baby spaces.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Where are they?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is their home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. This is where I raised them alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He opened the folder.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You filed for divorce?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I initiated the process.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Caleb did this. He convinced you. He&#8217;s always hated me!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stood.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Caleb carried furniture. Mom watched the babies.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I met his gaze.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And I left you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Marcus turned toward the hallway.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You moved the babies while I was away?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I moved them somewhere I wasn&#8217;t raising them alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His eyes dropped to the folder. &#8220;You&#8217;re keeping them from me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. The proposed schedule is inside. You wanted family to be someone else&#8217;s responsibility, so now you can learn yours.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is because of one trip?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The trip wasn&#8217;t the issue. It was the first time you voiced the truth out loud.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He stared at me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You believed that earning money meant you owned my time, my rest, and every decision in this house.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ev, we wanted those babies for years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I still want them. You wanted the photos to share online.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His face tightened. &#8220;You made me look terrible.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No, Marcus. You did that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Weeks later, he came to the old house for his first full visit.<\/p>\n<p>Luna kicked beneath the play gym. Soleil slept nearby. Bodhi rested against Marcus&#8217;s chest.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can help now,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Helping is optional. Parenting isn&#8217;t.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He surveyed the warm, imperfect house. &#8220;Is there any chance for us?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The answer came easily.<\/p>\n<p>After he left, Mom joined me on the porch.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you regret it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I listened to my babies stirring inside.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. I regret how long I believed keeping my family together required losing myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I opened the screen door.<\/p>\n<p>Marcus had taken a vacation because he thought I hadn&#8217;t earned a break.<\/p>\n<p>I built a life where I no longer needed his permission to breathe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>PART 1 After five years of fertility treatments, I became pregnant with triplets. It felt miraculous, and my husband, Marcus, was thrilled. 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