{"id":22673,"date":"2026-10-21T18:37:15","date_gmt":"2026-10-21T18:37:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=22673"},"modified":"2026-10-21T18:37:15","modified_gmt":"2026-10-21T18:37:15","slug":"my-daughter-hid-her-pain-for-weeks-then-a-doctor-asked-me-what-her-father-already-knew","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=22673","title":{"rendered":"My Daughter Hid Her Pain for Weeks\u2014Then a Doctor Asked Me What Her Father Already Knew"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Five weeks before I brought my daughter to the hospital, her father had taken her there for the same persistent pain. The medical record showed that additional imaging had been recommended, but the follow-up never happened. He had told her nothing important was found. Now, with further testing needed, she admitted he had blamed her for adding to our family\u2019s stress\u2014and told her not to tell me about the recommended follow-up.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-4\"><\/div>\n<p>When his call lit up my phone, her frightened reaction made my priorities painfully clear. I still had no diagnosis, and I had not heard his explanation. But neither uncertainty could justify another delay. I held her hand and resolved to follow the medical team\u2019s recommendations, complete the tests, and let her speak without blame. His answers could wait. Her care could not. Whatever came next, she would not have to prove that her pain deserved to be heard.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Five weeks before I brought my daughter to the hospital, her father had taken her there for the same persistent pain. The medical record showed <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=22673\" title=\"My Daughter Hid Her Pain for Weeks\u2014Then a Doctor Asked Me What Her Father Already Knew\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22674,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22673","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22673","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22673"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22673\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22675,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22673\/revisions\/22675"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22673"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22673"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22673"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}