{"id":3236,"date":"2025-06-09T17:13:28","date_gmt":"2025-06-09T17:13:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3236"},"modified":"2025-06-09T17:13:28","modified_gmt":"2025-06-09T17:13:28","slug":"my-5-year-old-son-asked-me-if-we-could-visit-daddys-other-kids-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3236","title":{"rendered":"My 5-Year-Old Son Asked Me If We Could Visit &#8216;Daddy&#8217;s Other Kids&#8217; Again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>It was just a regular Tuesday when I picked up my bubbly kindergartener, Tim. Glitter-smudged and proud, he showed off a paper turtle. On the drive home, he casually said, \u201cCan we go to the playground near Daddy\u2019s other house? I miss his other kids.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My heart froze. \u201cOther kids?\u201d I asked. He explained he\u2019d gone there while I was away for work, to a house with balloons, a giant TV, and kids who called Jake &#8220;Dad.&#8221; Jake had told him it was a secret.<\/p>\n<p>Shaken, I checked Tim\u2019s tablet location history. Sure enough, on the Saturday I was gone, it had stayed at a strange address for hours.<\/p>\n<p>The next day, I drove there. The yellow house had wind chimes and a yard sign: <em>\u201cBe Kind\u2014Everyone\u2019s Fighting a Battle You Can\u2019t See.\u201d<\/em> Then Jake stepped outside\u2014with a toddler holding his hand, followed by more kids and a woman who waved at me warmly.<\/p>\n<p>Confused, I stayed in the car. Jake saw me and <em>smiled<\/em>. Not a guilty one\u2014an open, calm smile.<\/p>\n<p>The woman introduced herself as Carol. The house was <em>Sunshine House<\/em>, a foster care support center. Jake had been volunteering there for months. The kids called him &#8220;Dad&#8221; for comfort. He\u2019d brought Tim just once to help decorate for a party.<\/p>\n<p>Jake hadn\u2019t hidden a second family\u2014he was helping children who didn\u2019t have one. My heart, once filled with suspicion, now overflowed with pride. I\u2019d married a man who was quietly doing good, not for recognition, but out of love.<\/p>\n<p>I thought he had a secret life. Turns out, his only secret was being even better than I knew.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>&nbsp; It was just a regular Tuesday when I picked up my bubbly kindergartener, Tim. Glitter-smudged and proud, he showed off a paper turtle. On <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3236\" title=\"My 5-Year-Old Son Asked Me If We Could Visit &#8216;Daddy&#8217;s Other Kids&#8217; Again\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3237,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3236","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3236","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3236"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3236\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3238,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3236\/revisions\/3238"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3236"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3236"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3236"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}