{"id":3430,"date":"2025-06-15T16:10:05","date_gmt":"2025-06-15T16:10:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3430"},"modified":"2025-06-15T16:10:05","modified_gmt":"2025-06-15T16:10:05","slug":"my-5-year-old-son-started-avoiding-his-mom-his-reason-greatly-worried-me-so-i-confronted-my-wife-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3430","title":{"rendered":"My 5-Year-Old Son Started Avoiding His Mom &#8211; His Reason Greatly Worried Me, So I Confronted My Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>What would make a five-year-old suddenly pull away from the person he loved most?<\/strong><br \/>\nWhen my son, Sam, stopped hugging and kissing his mom, I thought it was a phase. But it went on for weeks, and something felt off. I asked my wife, Candice, about it, but she brushed it off as &#8220;independence.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Later, when I spoke to Sam, he said, &#8220;Mom has a secret. She cries when you&#8217;re not home.&#8221; He saw her holding a photo before she hid it under the bed. I found the photo in a green box\u2014it was a man I&#8217;d never seen, but he looked just like Candice.<\/p>\n<p>I confronted her that night. At first, she panicked. But then she told me the truth: the man in the photo was her <em>twin brother<\/em>\u2014a brother she only recently learned existed. Her dying grandmother had revealed that Candice\u2019s mother had an affair and secretly gave one twin to the biological father. Her mom\u2019s husband was told the second baby died.<\/p>\n<p>Candice had been torn with guilt, unsure if searching for her brother would ruin her family. That secret had been eating away at her, and Sam felt it.<\/p>\n<p>I held her as she cried, promising we\u2019d face it together. She didn\u2019t have to carry this alone anymore. We\u2019d start with that photo and go from there\u2014one step at a time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>&nbsp; What would make a five-year-old suddenly pull away from the person he loved most? When my son, Sam, stopped hugging and kissing his mom, <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3430\" title=\"My 5-Year-Old Son Started Avoiding His Mom &#8211; His Reason Greatly Worried Me, So I Confronted My Wife\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3431,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3430"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3430\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3432,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3430\/revisions\/3432"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}