{"id":3718,"date":"2025-06-23T06:44:13","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T06:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3718"},"modified":"2025-06-23T06:44:13","modified_gmt":"2025-06-23T06:44:13","slug":"just-days-before-our-wedding-my-fiance-took-a-closure-trip-with-his-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3718","title":{"rendered":"Just Days Before Our Wedding, My Fianc\u00e9 Took a \u2018Closure Trip\u2019 with His Ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At 35, I was finally engaged to the love of my life, and for eight months, I threw myself into wedding planning\u2014menus, flowers, dress fittings, timelines\u2014the childhood dream coming true. Jared and I met two years ago at a friend\u2019s party; he helped with a stubborn wine bottle, we bonded instantly, shared laughter and values, and soon became inseparable. His proposal last Christmas was perfect\u2014I said yes without hesitation.<\/p>\n<p>As our wedding approached, everything seemed on track: venue, playlists, honeymoon\u2014the works. Then, a week before the wedding, Jared grew distant. He claimed nerves, but when I ran into his groomsman Dylan, I learned Jared had secretly planned a \u201cclosure\u201d trip with his ex instead of the guys\u2019 hiking trip he told me about. My heart dropped.<\/p>\n<p>The next morning, I quietly orchestrated my own move. At the airport, accompanied by my college ex Liam\u2014just to mirror Jared\u2019s move\u2014Jared and Miranda appeared, surprised. With calm composure, I told Jared that Liam and I were off for our own closure trip. Then we boarded our flight\u2014no show, truly gone.<\/p>\n<p>On that trip, Liam and I reconnected, laughter spilling into late-night conversations. By the end of the week, sparks reignited. Six months later, he moved in, proposed, and we quietly married this spring. Jared emailed months later: \u201cGuess your closure worked.\u201d I smiled\u2014because it did.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>At 35, I was finally engaged to the love of my life, and for eight months, I threw myself into wedding planning\u2014menus, flowers, dress fittings, <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=3718\" title=\"Just Days Before Our Wedding, My Fianc\u00e9 Took a \u2018Closure Trip\u2019 with His Ex\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3719,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3718","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3718","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3718"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3718\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3720,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3718\/revisions\/3720"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3718"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3718"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3718"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}