{"id":4522,"date":"2025-07-13T13:16:24","date_gmt":"2025-07-13T13:16:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=4522"},"modified":"2025-07-13T13:16:24","modified_gmt":"2025-07-13T13:16:24","slug":"my-ex-showed-up-on-fathers-day-with-his-new-girlfriend-to-look-like-a-great-dad-to-our-daughter-so-i-let-him-embarrass-himself-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=4522","title":{"rendered":"My Ex Showed Up on Father\u2019s Day with His New Girlfriend to Look Like a Great Dad to Our Daughter \u2014 So I Let Him Embarrass Himself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since our divorce, Kyle has been flaunting his fatherhood online\u2014but in real life, he\u2019s disappeared. His Instagram is full of sweet \u201cproud dad\u201d posts, but he hasn\u2019t paid child support in six months, skipped visits, and gone nearly a month without even texting Emma. She checks her phone every night\u2014hoping for a message, but nothing comes.<\/p>\n<p>Then just before Father\u2019s Day, he suddenly texts that he wants to visit. I agree and prepare Emma, who shyly admits she \u201cdoesn\u2019t know if \\[she] has a dad anymore.\u201d That night, she finally decides what to put on her handmade card.<\/p>\n<p>On Father\u2019s Day, Kyle shows up with his new girlfriend, Ava, who immediately starts filming everything. He brings Emma a trendy water bottle from Target. I invite Emma to give her card. She hands him the glittery creation, but when he opens it, it reads, \u201cHappy Father\u2019s Day\u2026 to Mom!\u201d Emma explains she made it for me because I\u2019m the one she sees helping her every day.<\/p>\n<p>Kyle and Ava go silent. I hand Kyle the records: missed support, canceled visits, ignored court notices. Ava is furious\u2014he\u2019s lied to her, too. I escort them to the door, calmly wishing them a happy Father\u2019s Day.<\/p>\n<p>Later, Emma nearly tears apart over giving the card. I reassure her she did perfectly. We bake cookies together and end the night with her whispering, \u201cYou really are both my parents.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Ever since our divorce, Kyle has been flaunting his fatherhood online\u2014but in real life, he\u2019s disappeared. His Instagram is full of sweet \u201cproud dad\u201d posts, <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=4522\" title=\"My Ex Showed Up on Father\u2019s Day with His New Girlfriend to Look Like a Great Dad to Our Daughter \u2014 So I Let Him Embarrass Himself\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4523,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4522"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4522\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4524,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4522\/revisions\/4524"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}