{"id":7439,"date":"2026-01-23T09:15:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-23T09:15:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=7439"},"modified":"2026-01-23T09:15:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-23T09:15:07","slug":"my-husband-suddenly-insisted-we-go-to-church-every-weekend-when-i-discovered-the-real-reason-i-filed-for-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=7439","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Suddenly Insisted We Go to Church Every Weekend \u2014 When I Discovered the Real Reason, I Filed for Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My husband suddenly insisted we start going to church every weekend. When I learned why, I filed for divorce.<\/p>\n<p>Brian and I had never gone to church in the 12 years we\u2019d been together\u2014not Easter, not Christmas. We aren\u2019t religious. We have a nine-year-old daughter, Kiara, and Sundays were always low-key: sleeping in, pancakes, cartoons.<\/p>\n<p>So when Brian pushed for church every Sunday, I thought it was a joke. It wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>He said work stress was getting to him and that church made him feel good\u2014the message, the community, something positive to do as a family. It sounded sincere, so I supported him.<\/p>\n<p>Church quickly became routine. Same row, same smiles. Kiara doodled during the service. Brian looked completely at home.<\/p>\n<p>Everything seemed fine\u2014until one Sunday after service, when Brian told us to wait in the car while he ran to the bathroom.<\/p>\n<p>Ten minutes passed. No answer to my calls or texts. Kiara started asking questions, and I felt that gut-level unease.<\/p>\n<p>I asked someone to watch Kiara and went back inside.<\/p>\n<p>Brian wasn\u2019t in the bathroom.<\/p>\n<p>Then I saw him through a half-open window in the church garden, talking to someone\u2014and with the window cracked, I could hear everything. \u2b07\ufe0f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>My husband suddenly insisted we start going to church every weekend. When I learned why, I filed for divorce. Brian and I had never gone <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=7439\" title=\"My Husband Suddenly Insisted We Go to Church Every Weekend \u2014 When I Discovered the Real Reason, I Filed for Divorce\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7439"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7439\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7440,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7439\/revisions\/7440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}