{"id":796,"date":"2025-03-04T12:59:16","date_gmt":"2025-03-04T12:59:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=796"},"modified":"2025-03-04T12:59:16","modified_gmt":"2025-03-04T12:59:16","slug":"if-you-think-we-need-two-incomes-go-get-a-second-job-my-husband-should-have-been-careful-what-he-wished-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=796","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;If You Think We Need Two Incomes, Go Get a Second Job&#8217;: My Husband Should Have Been Careful What He Wished For"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I walked into the house, my body aching as if I\u2019d been carrying the world on my back. Work had drained me, and all I wanted was to collapse. But laughter echoed from the garage, pulling me in.<\/p>\n<p>Inside, Mark and his friend Greg were covered in grease, still tinkering with the same car they\u2019d been \u201cfixing\u201d for weeks. When I asked why they were still at it, Greg suggested Mark could work two jobs until he found something. My patience snapped. I fired back, and Mark, rather than defending me, just shrugged.<\/p>\n<p>One week later, I was exhausted from working two jobs, and when I came home to find the place a mess, Mark complained about dinner. I snapped. He suggested that maybe I should just handle everything because \u201cthat\u2019s a woman\u2019s job.\u201d I told him I was done.<\/p>\n<p>Later, Mark promised to take a job if offered, and sure enough, he got a mechanic job. But instead of relief, I felt cold\u2014his smugness made me question his sincerity.<\/p>\n<p>At work, I had a tense conversation with Jake about some new hires. Then, I stepped outside, only to see Mark and Greg among them. Mark\u2019s face turned pale when he realized I was their boss. Greg\u2019s confusion turned to realization, and Mark, finally acknowledging how much he\u2019d taken me for granted, muttered an apology. I didn\u2019t rush to forgive him. I told him, &#8220;Let\u2019s see if you mean it,&#8221; and walked away.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>I walked into the house, my body aching as if I\u2019d been carrying the world on my back. Work had drained me, and all I <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/?p=796\" title=\"&#8216;If You Think We Need Two Incomes, Go Get a Second Job&#8217;: My Husband Should Have Been Careful What He Wished For\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":797,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/796","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=796"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/796\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":798,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/796\/revisions\/798"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=796"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=796"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepatswalk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}