8 Ways To Tell If Your Cat Actually Likes You Or Just Tolerates You

Getting a new cat is exciting but can be stressful—you don’t know if you’ll bond right away. Cats can seem moody, but they’re actually easy to read once you know the signs. If your cat isn’t connecting with you yet, don’t worry—relationships take time, especially since cats adjust slower than dogs. With patience, you can build a strong bond.

Signs your cat likes you:

  • Kneading near you = comfort and love
  • Bringing gifts = affection
  • Sleeping with you = trust
  • Rubbing, cuddling, slow blinking = attachment
  • Grooming you = bonding
  • Purring around you = happiness
  • Showing belly = deep trust
  • Following you = they enjoy your company

Even if these aren’t happening yet, give it time—effort and patience can turn you into best friends.