My Sister Wanted to Host Her Son’s 7th Birthday at My House Because It’s ‘Bigger’ – If I Only Knew the Real Reason Why

I was folding laundry when my sister, Sue, called to ask if she could host Ethan’s 7th birthday at my place that Saturday. She’d invited his whole class to their tiny apartment and needed more space—but I was out of town at a conference. Despite the timing, I agreed, left snacks and a \$400 LEGO castle as a surprise, and felt proud when the party went well.

But when I returned home late Sunday, I discovered my house had been used for someone else’s baby shower—decorations, wine, catering, even pink cupcakes. The guest book read “For baby Ava,” and I’d been charged \$900 for venue rental and food. Sue had even borrowed \$300 for a cake and drinks under false pretenses. When I confronted her, she shrugged it off and bragged about the money she’d made.

Our neighbor now thinks I run a party venue, and Sue’s made me out to be dramatic for being upset. My mom says I’m tearing the family apart. But I’m not angry about money—I’m hurt that Sue betrayed my trust. Is it unreasonable to expect honesty?

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