My mother-in-law moved in “to help” after I gave birth—but weeks later, she’s still here, and I’m at my breaking point. What started as support has turned into constant interference: criticizing how I care for my baby, inserting herself into every decision, and never giving me a moment alone with my husband. I know she means well, but her presence feels overwhelming and invasive.
One afternoon, after yet another comment about what I was doing wrong, I finally snapped. I told her firmly—but calmly—that while I appreciated her intentions, this was my home and my baby, and I needed space to figure things out. She seemed hurt, but she left the room quietly. I felt both relieved and guilty.
Later, I had a deeper talk with my husband, and eventually, a real conversation with her. I explained how her constant involvement was affecting my mental health and confidence as a new mom. To my surprise, she apologized. She hadn’t realized how much she was overstepping and offered to help differently—by handling housework and waiting for me to ask for baby-related help.
It wasn’t easy, but setting that boundary changed everything. I’ve learned that asking for space isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. If you’re in a similar situation, remember: you’re allowed to protect your peace. The right people will respect that.