When my in-laws demanded I remove my scarred nephew, Leo, from my wedding because they thought his scars would “scare other children,” it put me in an impossible position. Leo, who was important to both me and my sister, was standing beside me at the altar when they insisted he leave or they would. Hearing this hurt the boy deeply.
Before I could respond, my soon-to-be wife, Emily, stepped in. She publicly confronted her parents for trying to exclude a child on such cruel grounds. Emily made it clear Leo was family too and that they were no longer welcome if they couldn’t accept him.
Her parents stormed out, and we restarted the ceremony with Leo proudly beside us. The wedding went beautifully, with Leo in the photos and happily celebrating with us. Emily and I stood firm that family means love and inclusion — not judgment.